Quotes And Quotes


Page 14:

In 1981, Lorna Wing, a British psychiatrist, introduced the name Asperger's syndrome after taking interest in Asperger's research.


Page 16

Many autistic people are very good at hiding their autistic traits in public. People often don't see their real struggles or their meltdowns.


Page 19

When making choices, neurotypical people can be very sensitive about how a question or choice is presented or framed. Most people prefer an outcome that is presented in a positive light as opposed to a negative light, even if the two choices are identical.


Associative thinkers see relations and connections everywhere and tend not to categorize things. When I hear or read a certain word, I suddenly see a lot of “pictures” in my mind that have something to do with that word. This happens in quite an unstructured and even chaotic way. It's a complicated spiderweb of memories, pictures, and thoughts.


When I want to create something or solve a problem in my apartment and I go into a hardware store to find resources, I never ask for help.


Page 21


"Mathematical/musical thinkers are pattern thinkers. They think in patterns and they notice patterns in numbers and music. They are often great composers, computer programmers, or chess players."


Page 22


Verbal thinkers tend to be very good at learning languages and are interested in words and literature. They often have an extensive knowledge and memory of movies, history, or geography, and they enjoy making lists about facts in alphabetical order.


Page 27

The sad fact is that many autistic adults do not have a job or have never worked for pay. Many autistic people do volunteer work while living on disability payments because they encounter too many issues at a workplace. Even though volunteer work also comes with responsibilities, there's less pressure regarding expectations and deadlines.


Page 28

While many autistic people face great challenges as children, things become even harder once they reach adulthood. Suddenly, society expects you to be “an adult” and behave and function as such. It is such a shame that exactly at the point in their lives when they need it the most, the support they receive from organizations and resources often stops. Because I was diagnosed at 21, I never received any support as a child. After I received my diagnosis, my mother tried to find all kinds of resources, but she soon realized that I was too old for much of anything.


Page 29


Ableism is discrimination against people with disabilities. It is the harboring of beliefs that devalue and limit the potential of people with physical, intellectual, or mental disorders and disabilities. For instance, people might believe that autistic people will never be an asset to society, and that they need to be “fixed” or “cured”.


“You have to be the bravest person in the world to go out every day, being yourself when no one likes who you are.”

― Matthew Dicks, Memoirs of an Imaginary Friend

“Your abilities lie in the places people usually overlook, so you’ve been convinced you don’t have any at all. But you’re smart, and you’re capable, and if people struggle to see that, it’s their problem, not yours.”

Talia Hibbert, Act Your Age, Eve Brown

“I'm getting so sick of talking. It's like holding the wrong kind of magnets together: I can try and try, but it takes brute force, and the second I relax, the magnets simply slide past each other.”

Corinne Duyvis, On the Edge of Gone

“People always get like this, sooner or later. They start pushing and pushing, and I don't get what they're pushing me toward, or they promise me something, then do the opposite, and I no longer know what to do. Either way, someone gets hurt. Most of the time, it's me.”

Corinne Duyvis, On the Edge of Gone

“I'm not making sense, and I'm so tired of having to make sense. I've even more tired of talking about how OK or not OK I am. I'm not. I've failed. That's it. People should stop going on about it.”

Corinne Duyvis, On the Edge of Gone

“I don't think you're even hearing me."

Her laugh turns into a sob.

I'm listening. I just don't know what to say, or how. Words crawl in the back of my mind but won't take enough shape to reach my tongue.”

Corinne Duyvis, On the Edge of Gone



Page 38

The Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN) is an organization run by and for autistic people. Their slogan is “Nothing About Us Without Us.” They advocate for the rights of autistic people so that their voices are heard


Page 42

Adults on the autism spectrum often encounter a lot of misunderstandings during conversations because we don't always understand what people mean. This is not just because of the words, a huge part of communication is nonverbal.


Page 44

When most people talk, they vary their pitch, tempo, volume, or intonation, depending on what they are saying. This is called prosody.


Page 54

"being able to have a conversation, which is a lot more challenging for me than anybody will ever be aware of, doesn’t mean I don’t have other major struggles"


Page 74

"One of the most common issues autistic students have with homework is exhaustion. When I came home after a day of school, I was so tired."


Page 91

“Many autistic people are very passionate about what they do. Especially when they find a job that lies within their special interest, they will have a lot of stamina and determination to succeed.”


Page 92

“Many atistic people have a highly developed ability to recognize patterns. This makes us very good at recognizing changes and spotting deviations in data and information


Page 111

“Most, if not all, people on the autism spectrum use masking when they go out in public. When I’m in public or around others, they get to experience the very best of me as I tend to hide my autistic traits.”